Ready for Nikah? Let's Do It the Sunnah Way: A Friendly Guide to a Sin-Free Marriage

Ready for Nikah? Let's Do It the Sunnah Way: A Friendly 

Guide to a Sin-Free Marriage

Islamic marriage 

Marriage is the Sunnah of Islam and the Order of Allah subhanatala 

In the Sharia of the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ (peace be upon him), marriage is very easy; it is not at all expensive; there is no extra hassle or trouble; that is why the world-famous scholar Hazrat II said: Muslim marriage should be easier because the more difficult the adultery will be; and the more difficult the marriage, the easier the adultery will be.

Nowadays, many of our so-called religious brothers also follow the “Engagement” system and other systems for Muslim rishta and causing trouble to the Prophet Muhammad(صلى الله عليه وسلم)(peace be upon him); 

But they don't know that they are causing real harm to the society along with their own loss. 

The rich people think: I have earned this wealth, so I will spend it as I wish,But  is my Allah and His Messenger(صلى الله عليه وسلم) will be displeased with it?or will they be pleased?

they 🤔 thinks that It is not necessary to see. 

A rich man said: Allah has given me money, why should I not spend it?

So my rich 🤑 friends,

It is important to remember that if we are not upright in the work of religion, then Allah will make arrangements for extracting ghee from crooked fingers, (and he is doing so).

I mean your money 💰 will be spend even if you don't spend it thinking 🤔 that Why should I spend my money for Allah? Then remember Everything is under Allah's control.

Even if you don't spend Your honey 🍯,I mean money 💰 , Allah subhanatala will take your money 🤑 from the way that you can't even imagine like

Money is not honey

That money will go to government taxes, will have to be given to lawyers or doctors; or will be taken by robbers, goons and pickpockets, or will be destroyed in riots and riots.

That's why Sufyan-e-Saori said: Halal money is never wasted. That is, if it is wasted, it will be understood that there was a problem with the income.

So the main point is 

What a rich man spends on a wedding ceremony, ten or twenty poor girls can be married with it. However, Allah Almighty has made those wasteful rich people poor after a short time due to their waste; I have seen millionaires and the children of millionaires become beggars.

When become poor from being rich 🤑 

 Even keeping in mind this deplorable outcome, at least those rich people need to be careful; the habit of wasting money is seen among many rich people in Bengal. The rich people of other provinces and countries are largely restrained and well-organized; they build shops, residences and industrial establishments to establish the poor; this does not reduce the wealth of those rich people.

It is said in the Hadith that the most blessed marriage is the one that costs the least. مشکاه ۲ کتاب النکاح

The short form of Masnun marriage(Sunnah Marriage) is that the groom, seeing the bride and talking to her, liked her; he searched her well. If necessary, the groom would send close relatives to the bride; the Messenger of Allah( صلى الله عليه وسلم)himself used to send her in this way. 

So what doing need to check when you want to sleep someone for married?

 Piety and piety were the main criteria for choice, and if health is good, then a dowry in gold is recommended. It is forbidden to marry only on the basis of beauty, because perhaps this beauty will be the reason for the beauty to become bad. Similarly, it is forbidden to marry on the basis of material wealth; because perhaps the abundance of wealth will make that wealthy woman wicked and reckless.

• Another tradition has it that if she marries for the sake of wealth, Allah will make her poor.
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• The reckless wandering of girls without a veil and the search for "standards" of the female side are also responsible for the dowry system: Not only the groom's side is responsible for the dowry system, many bride's sides compete in giving money.
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• So who will talk about the dowry system? Who can be given dowry.

After marriage, it is Sunnah to hold the hair of the wife (front of the head) and recite this dua:

اللَّهُمَّ إني أسألك خيرها وخير ما جبلك علىهِ ، وَأَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ شَرِّهَا وَ خَرَمَا جبِلَتْ علىهِ

• Meaning:- Allah. I ask You for her good and the good of this world, and I seek Your refuge from her evil (evil) and the evil of her money.
• This supplication is recited by holding the hair of a new animal.

It is Sunnah to recite the following supplication for a newly married couple:-

May Allah bless you both and bless you and unite you in goodness (Bahashti Ziyur Maddalal 5/7)

• Meaning: May Allah bless you both and bless you and unite you in goodness and harmony. (There are several versions of this supplication.)

Marriage like prophet Muhammad ﷺ 

2 way to propose for a marriage in Islamic way ( Muhammad ﷺ way)

First way for proposing a girl 

The bride's side can mention the bride to the groom or the groom's side, as Hazrat Umar himself went to Hazrat Uthman and Hazrat Abu Bakr with the marriage proposal for his daughter Hafsa (RA).

Second way for proposing a girl 

The opposite is also Sunnah, as when Hazrat Ali proposed to marry Fatimah to the Messenger of Allah (PBUH), the Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said,  "شكراً لك وأهلاً بك or  "مرحبا وأهلاً على الله" (i.e., thank you and welcome). Therefore, it is Sunnah to agree to the marriage proposal by saying "Mrhab and Afla." 

The hadith states: When a child is seven years old, make him a bed for prayer. Beat him. When he is nine years old, separate his bed, and if possible, arrange for his marriage when he is seventeen. After doing this, make him sit in front of you and say this supplication:

May Allah not make you a cause of trial for me in this world and in the Hereafter.

Meaning: May Allah not make you a cause of trial for me in this world and in the Hereafter. 

So Muslim marriage online is what you need of you 🤔 think that I can't control anymore or I don't want to engage in more gunah (if you know what I mean)because Finding a life partner can be difficult in today's fast-paced world, particularly within the Muslim community. Fortunately, there are numerous resources available to help you navigate the journey of Muslim matrimony. This blog will explore various Muslim marriage sites, Islamic marriage principles, and the importance of halal marriage.

 Recognizing Muslim Marriage ,Muslim matrimony refers to the process of finding a spouse within the Islamic faith, emphasizing compatibility, shared values, and mutual respect. The concept of nikah (marriage) in Islam is not just a contract but a sacred bond that requires the consent of both parties.

 Marriage Sites where Muslims can get married ,There are several  read more....

Conclusion

If you really want to find a partner for your life through Muslim matrimonial sites or marriage bureaus ,then it can be a really good 😊 experience when you will approached with the right mindset and resources. So welcome 😁 others to  the journey of nikah matrimony with an open heart, and remember that the goal is to build a loving home and supportive and Halal relationship that aligns with your Islamic values.

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