first night of marriage according to islam

 first night of marriage

 according to islam

Sunnah way for 
First night after wedding

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Today we will discuss about the first night after your wedding 💒

We will discuss about,

How to make it special for the newlyweds on the wedding night, and all of its dua and sunnah Tarika will be taken from huzur Muhammad ﷺ

So let’s start our discussion about the Sunnah Tarika after marriage to your first night with proven hadish of hujur (SAWS )

1. First hadish about how to welcome new bride as a Muslim father of a daughter:-

When Hazrat Ali(RA) married Fatima (RA),On the wedding night, the Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said to Hazrat Ali: Do not do anything without meeting me. At the time of the meeting, 

The Messenger of Allah Muhammad ﷺ  poured the water with which he performed ablution on Hazrat Ali’s body and said this supplication:

Allahumma barik fihihama, wabarik alihihama, wabarik lahhama fi khalmihama:

Meaning: - O Allah, bless them both, shower blessings on them, and bless them in various matters.

(عمل الوم ص 163 رقم 607)

Another hadith states: 

The Messenger of Allah brought water, rinsed it, and threw it into the water. Then he poured it on Hazrat Ali’s head and in front and said:

O Allah, indeed I will protect him with you and his offspring from the Most Merciful Satan

In this way, he poured the water on Hazrat Ali’s back and made the same supplication.

 Then he said to Ali(RA)

Enter in the name of Allah with your family, with blessings, and enter with your wife. (163) 

The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ (peace be upon him) also teach us dua for intercourse ,so the Shaitan can't participate in this 

2. Special Dua(Supplication) before intercourse:-

One day the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) discussed the evil eye and the evil eye on children; then he said: If you recite this supplication before intercourse, the child that is born as a result of that intercourse, Satan will never be able to harm him.

In the name of Allah, Allahumma jannibnaash shaitan, wa jaynib shaitan ma razaqtana

Pronunciation: - Bismillah Allahumma jannibnaash shaitan, a-jannibish shaitan ma razaqtana.

Meaning: - In the name of Allah, we begin with, O Allah! Protect us from Satan; and keep Satan away from all the blessings that You have given us. عمل 164 + Al-Bukhari)

Needless to say, this supplication  or sunnah dua should be read before opening.

3. Sunnat way (The method) of intercourse

3.1.What not to do:-

The Sunnah method of intercourse is that one should not have intercourse in open places or in the presence of anyone other than the husband and wife; not to use the unprotected area from the knees to the navel during menstruation; not to do it on the back road. In addition, there are some medical prohibitions, such as not standing; not having the man below and the woman above.

3.2.What you need to do or must do( Facilitation of benefits)

The Sunnah method is that one should first have fun; if there is a real need, recite the Masnoon prayer; and the man should sit with as much clothing as possible on his body; the woman should lie down. This rule is the Masnoon rule. )اتحاف السادا المتقين شرح إيحاء علوم الدين

Finally , I mean at last ,

wait for a while, urinate, and wash thoroughly with water; at least wipe with a wet cloth. Otherwise, a serious skin disease occurs. It is forbidden to start intercourse with impure sex.

In that state, talking is makruh; remembrance etc. Are prohibited; one must recite the supplication before opening the satar; to prevent the evil of the devil, one should recite Ayatul Kursi and the supplication before opening the satar

باسم الله  first and Takbir. 

At least do this Masnoon supplication or Dua must be recited, otherwise the devil also becomes a partner.

I hope you understand if you not don’t worry I will tell you in short about every step so just follow them,So you can easily understand it and do it like hujur SAWS said us in hadish, Because we all know that there no success in others Tarika only in our Rasulullah Muhammad ﷺ Tarika Was, is and will be forever the one and only path for success.

the first night after your wedding 💒

Make your First night special

Steps to follow for sunnah  intercourse(first night after marriage):-

1. Before starting always read this dua :

Pronunciation: - Bismillah Allahumma jannibnaash shaitan, a-jannibish shaitan ma razaqtana

(Atleast read Bismillah before starting)

If not Shaitan will be your partner 

2. First you can make fun together if  needed by kissing or touching eachother,of course not in private part 

3. After this if you want to start 

Wife should be lay down in bed and The husband will be on top and both will open as few satar as possible.

(one must recite the supplication before opening the satar; to prevent the evil of the devil, one should recite Ayatul Kursi and the supplication before opening the satar)

4. at last ,

wait for a while, urinate, and wash thoroughly with water; at least wipe with a wet cloth. Otherwise, a serious skin disease occurs. It is forbidden to start intercourse with impure sex.

(In that state, talking is makruh; remembrance etc. Are prohibited;) 

Conclusion

If you really want to live  a life with partner through sunnat, like prophet Muhammad ﷺ said,then this sites can be a fulfilling experience if you approached with the right mindset and resources. So happily welcome the journey of the  nikah  with an open heart of yours, and remember that the goal is not only to build a loving and supportive relationship but also a sunnat relationship aligns with Islamic values.

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